Holiday Blues"

You know the holidays are upon us starting with thanksgiving, and then christmas,and new years,and a lot of  people from what i have been hearing and seeing,is not feeling the holiday season this year,and it might be for various reasons,finances,a loss of a loved one,being lonely,not having a lover,who knows,but what i can respect is the ones who will tell you how they are feeling,and hopefully you can cheer them up,if they let you,but the ones i can respect,are the ones who want you to join there sad party,or the ones who get mad cause your life is going a certain way that theres is not,so what i have to say to those people is if you want to be depressed and dont want any help from anyone,then thats on you and i can do nothing but respect that,but the ones who are sad and depressed,and want you to feel the same way,you ass out on my end cause i may not have my grandmother this year and it will be rough,but i be damn if im going to stop living and enjoying life,and i damn sure not going to make how i feel about my grandma not being here on someone else cause thats not fair,and its not cool so all i can say is if you know someone who is down and out this holiday season,try to cheer them up,and if they dont want your help respect that,and enjoy the holiday season the best way you know how and thats real talk.

FOREPLAY XXX EDTION"

You know when your young and you a man and maybe young women to,all you thinking about when it comes to sex,is how many nuts can you get,you not thinking about learning her body,or her learning your body,you just want to cum,and hope she cums,and fuck like jack rabbits until you to tired to fuck,but when you get a little older,and a little wiser,its not all about just busting a nut,unless you a selfish lover,or a lover who is not really into perfecting your craft,and if you are one of those people then this topic is not for you,but if you are one of those people then you know where im going with this one, i mean i think that from what i hear about and see on this social media sites,and im not speaking for everybody,but a lot of people have stopped practicing the art of foreplay,and to me foreplay is what makes the sex,or lovemaking that much better,i mean you and a woman get together,whats wrong with taking the time to learn each others bodies or spots that get each other hot,i mean kissing the good old fashion kissing,kissing the neck,or the belly button,or the crease between her thigh,rubbing her thighs,or her feet,or sucking her toes,or taking your time and eating her pussy nice and long,or sucking her titties if she likes,just finding her spots,or her g spot,and for the fellas,just look at your lady as a juicy steak,and how you want your steak prepared,you know i like to marinate my steak real good so its so juicy,and seasoned before i eat it,and to me that is how you should do your lady marinate her body with your tongue and hands,and dont be afraid to taste her holes,asshole,pussyhole whatever,just get her so fired up,and ready that when you get to the sexual intercourse part,she is going to be wet and flowing like a river,waiting for your dick to slide right in,and after you have gotten her there you are going to be ready as well cause your dick should be hard as a rock waiting to fuck her form all the foreplay you have giving her,but the key is patience like the old saying goes good things come to those who wait,and if you can wait to get her body flowing then she is going give you a helluva showing in the bedroom,kitchen living room wherever the foreplay takes you real talk.

Must Be Nice It Damn Sure Is"

You know if you been a follower of my blog i have wrote about how people who you think are happy for your success really deep down,be hoping and praying for your downfall,i mean you have some people who are truly hapy for you,but you have those who will say it must be nice,and i love to hear those words come out peoples mouths,cause my comeback is always the same it sure is,cause i know they truly dont mean it,its just away to say something rather than show the hate,jealousy,and envy,and its sad because so many people give there selves away on social media sites,and in life,cause if you post a quote or comment about something good or positive going on in your life,you will be surprised at how few likes you will get,the only true likes will come from someone who is truly happy for you,a true friend,but post something about a break up,or losing your job,or something negative,shit you gonna get all kinds of likes because misery loves company,and its sad because it be the people you least expect who be hating on you the most,so for all you positive people out there,let your haters hate,do you,enjoy your life,to the fullest,and when someone says it must be nice look them dead in there face and say you got damn right it is real talk.

You used to be a Priority,But now You not even And Option"

You know im going to make this short and sweet,why do people think that once they decide to break a relationship off with a person that they can just always have a spot with that person,i mean they think because they may have once had either a elite status,as the man in there in life or woman,that they can just always come back,they think because they were once a priority they can always be and option,now if you a weak,or insecure person who can easily allow a person come and go in your life then thats you,but if you a person who has more than a enough options,the last thing you gonna do is allow a person who was once a priority, in your life,feel they have power to always come back cause a real one will tell them they are not only a priority any more they not even and option,and thats real talk,cause i feel that once you make that grown folks decision to call it quits,or feel you can find someone better,then once you close that door,it should be a bolt on it,cause why come back cause you thought the grass would be green elsewhere when in reality you the grass might have just needed some water and sunshine on it and thats real.

Making the most of and oppourtunity"

You know in sometimes in life,whether its love,or a job,or a chance at a relationship,or being with someone,or getting a good position,you have to take advantage when someone gives you and oppourtunity cause if you dont then you will miss out,and i think a lot of times people be so scared of taking a big step,or trying something different,that they feel like just staying the course and playing it safe is the way to go,but my thing is if you want to reach that great level with a job,or with someone who can show you a better way,then you have to be ready to take a risk cause being still,and staying the course will only getting you so far,so all im saying is take advantage of your chance when its being presented,cause once that door closes its hard to open it up again,and thats real talk.

Best Man Holiday Great Movie"

You know if you have not seen best man holiday then dont read this post,because that movie was a really good movie,that had laughter, emotion i dont care who you are if you have had a love one who is not hear any more especially during the holiday season,you cant help but be touched,plus the movie shows how you can have a black movie with a great cast,that is not shooting each other,or the movie being ghetto,it was just a good real movie,something i havent seen in awhile at the movies,so if you have not seen the movie i suggest you do,cause to me it was better than the first one,and i loved the first one,but its like the movie grew,and matured with me,so i really loved it,and i will be the first to admit,i did shed some tears cause its getting close to the holiday season,and this will be my first christmas,and thanksgiving without my grand mother who passed over easter weekend this year,so it will be tough but my family will get thru it,and once again go see a great movie in best man holiday cause it was truly worth every penny real talk.

It Always Takes That special Person To Reach Your Peak"

You know to many people in this world bring what they did in there past to there future,and thats why a lot of people are close minded sexually,because they may had a bad lover in the past,or they may have never came from oral,or they say no to anal sex,or they just say no to a lot of things,but my thing is just because you have not done something in the bedroom,in your past does not mean you cant do it in your future,sometimes it just takes the right person,who can seduce your mind,body,and soul sexually with verbal stimulation,and a person who may attract you in a different way than your past relationships,or you may find someone who can find your spots,or discover new spots that you may have not none,i dont believe in that you cant teach and old dog new tricks,i just believe sometimes you need a good trainer,and a good lover,who has the patience to discover your body,and be willing to do whatever to make your body reach its peak,and sometimes when you find a lover like that they will bring out the freak in you,and have you doing shit that you said you would never,do to me thats the sign of a good lover,cause shit you may not have sucked dick in the past,or you may have not sucked or licked pussy in the past,you may have never swallowed, in the past,or sucked up a womans juices in the past, or licked a womans asshole in the past talked dirty in the bedroom,a lot of things but you will be surprised once you meet that lover that raises the bar and sets the standard cause that once person might take you to a level that you might change your tune on a lot of things you may have said no to in the past and thats real talk,so never say never until you can fuck no fuck no more cause as long as you breathing and open minded you just never know who you will meet to make you reach your peak.

Bitch Niggaz Pt 2"

You what im about to write is close and personal to me cause i have a daughter,and so what im about to say may offend some but i dont give a fuck,because thats how i feel,i dont know what they making these new niggas of this generation out of,but whatever it is they soft as fucking butter,and to be honest they straight bitches,i mean back in my day and in the past before me,you had guys who if a woman dint want them,they would be hurt maybe,but they would move,on,if a woman didnt want to give a guy her number,the nigga moved on,if a woman didnt want to be bothered the man respected it,and moved on,but now these new niggas is killing women,raping them,and just disrespecting women like it aint shit,i mean every week its some woman coming up missing either killed,or beat up at the hands of some hoe ass man,and i dont know what the problem is but these niggas need to learn that no means no,and realize its to many women out here to going crazy off one woman you stupid fucks so to the ladies,its real out here stop going to places at night by yourself,watch your drinks at the clubs,watch for strange possessive niggas,and dont think that shit is cute when a man gets extra jealous over you cause those be the main ones who be fucking killing women,and last but not least,let someone close to you know when you go out on your first date with these niggas cause these new niggas be on that dumb shit you piss these fragile ass niggas off and they ready to kill so be careful ladies.

No Strings Attached Means Just That"

You know people who only want a no strings attached relationship,often find people who are looking for the same thing,but then a lot of times you have people who are really hiding there true feelings,and true agenda,as they will agree to the other persons terms, when deep down they want more,and they feel that if they sex the person real good,and wine and dine the person real good or try to spoil the person that they change the persons feelings,but what people need to realize is when you go into a situation trying to change the way a person feels,its you that usually ends up with hurt feelings,and i wish people would quit overestimating there sex,thinking that some bomb ass pussy,or good dick is going to change the way a person is,and make them think that they can make that person want them more,so for the people who are only looking for no strings attached realtionship,make sure that you do your homework because you got people out here who are out to change your ways when you dont need changing real talk.

Nobody Wants To Be Alone For The Holidays"

you know the holiday season is upon us thanksgiving,christmas eve christmas day,new years eve, and new years day. and what i really hate is people who say they could care less about having someone for the hoildays,thats some bullshit like the ojays used to sing about christmas just aint christmas with out the one you love so true,and im not talking about a boyfriend,or girlfirend,or a wife or husband,im talking about family,your kids,somebody close to you,but dont give me that shit about you rather just be alone and not bothered cause if you really truly feel that way then you lying and thats real talk.