Live your Life Like its Golden"

You know the summer is right around the corner and what i want my audience and followers to do is live your life like its golden,have fun with either your family,friends,wife,husband,boyfriend ,girlfriend whoever and just enjoy the summer go on a trip whether its a small trip or big, whether its one day or more,go on a picnic, a barbeque just do something this summer and not let it past you by because you only have one life to live and i say all the time enjoy this life for everything its worth while you can cause i know damn sure i am and have a great day and weekend,and also scroll my whole page to read my older blogs in the archives cause i write about any and everything real talk.

Sometimes you have to no when to hold em and no when to fold em"

Im about to make this short and sweet and this is some advice for people who feel just because you grew up with someone that you will be friends forever,let me explain my logic to you,yes a lot of times you may have known a person for over 20 or 30 or even 40 years,and you may have been friends as child but eventually people grow up and become adults,and as adults the way they use to think as kids may have totally changed so that person who you played with at age 10 or 11 or whatever,they were kids,and kids will be kids,so you learn to get along and play with kids,but once you become and adult and get away from a person some will stay connected and friends forever,but others will change,and you will have to realize that person you knew as a kid and got along with might not exist anymore,and you have to have the menatlity that hey that was your past,and somethings and some people are meant to be left in the past,and your future may not have a place for them and its ok,no harm no foul people grow,and if more people thought like this,then it wouldnt be so many people who have beef with people cause they feel like they have changed or people accusing a person of acting funny when in realty a person has matured,and grew as a person and the person you knew as a kid may look like and adult but have the mindset of the 12year old kid you used to be,so as they say kids should stay out of grown folks business and stay in a kids place, read between the lines and you will understand what im talking about some people grow together from a child to and adult and others just never make that transition real talk.

If you cant stand the Heat Get Out the fucking Kitchen"

You know whats sad is when your team that you pull for is out of the playoffs,or if you dont even have a fucking team to root for and you hating on the heat because of there success and its cool cause its funny to me when the heat win you dont hear a peep but when they lose the haters come out,but like i have said all along its not one game its a series so i will just sit and see what happens and if miami lose oh well but if they win it the haters will find something else to be sick about or complain about cause thats what haters do they hate and my thing is if you cant take the miami heat then get out the kitchen real talk.

The Good Ol Days"

You know this new generation its a whole new breed,growing up these days the kids have no idea of what its like to have fun,and just enjoy there neighborhoods,and childhood,so i was thinking im about to go down memory lane, I was born and raised on the west side Detroit Michigan Tracey and Fenkell And when i was growing up we had a since of family you had the reeves family,the martins,the colemans, the brooks,the northerns the wrights, the mcnabs, and many more families that looked out for each other,and a typical day may consist of me at the age of 12 waking up on a summer day and going down to my boy dre house,and then rashard and dada would come down,and little rich,and randy the whole block and we would play baseball in the street,then after baseball we would maybe wait for the ice cream truck to come down and we would get ice cream off the dairy king truck,thenwe would maybe walk to kendricks record store on fenkell or go to northland and shop, for the latest top tens,and then after having a full day of fun,i would sit on my porch with my friends with the streetlight just coming on,and listen to the electrifying mojo,or the wizard and talk stuff, with my friends as tracy kim and vonya would be over the northerns house or the brooks,and everybody respected the hood,and we all either went to murphy,middle,or cerveny middle,or cooley high,or hell cadilac middle,or burns elementary,but everybody had respect,and stayed outside enjoying the hood,not playing video games,or killing one another and it was still a sense of innocence that kids today dont have so i just wanted to share apart of my childhood growing up cause those were truly the good old days from a tracey boy for life turned a grown man indeed.

Love Hangover"

Sometimes its the people you least expect,that end up giving you the best loving ever,and you will know when you have had the bomb ass loving,cause let me tell you why i knew this guy name curtis,and his girl allison and they were just good friends,and so one day kurt went over allison house and they were getting along real good he looked at her yearbook,and they talked,and had good conversation,but then as kurt got ready to leave he reached to give her a hug,and they kissed,so he left but the kiss intrigued him and her,so then they hooked up again and this time they were teasing each other playing around,and then kurt pulled her pants down and ate her pussy,and he ate her pussy good,so after eating her pussy he was ready to slide his dick inside her,but she was hesitant at first so then she finally let him and then he stroked her pussy real good,and she came,and after that they was fucking like jack rabbits in all different positions,and using all her holes,then after all this fucking,they would leave each other,but kurt was at his place,and she was at hers, but she would think about him all the time,and he would think about her and they would catch each other smiling,and thats because they had no idea they would go from being friends,to lovers,and walking around with a love hangover,and instead of just being friends and having a love hangover,they became husband and wife,cause she told kurt if its a cure for this i dont want it cause im loving you and he was loving her,and thats what you call a love hangover when the sex and loving so good you got to have it over and over again,and thats real.

Misery Loves Company"

You know its sad when this thing we call life is not taking advantage of,i mean there is so much to do in life,but yet you have people who are not happy,who just love to be miserable,and like to subject others in there company of misery,that is why i refuse to deal with any negative people in my life,cause life is to short to be around individuals who only complain about all the bad things in life,whether its money,or there romance issues,or there health, or there jobs,its like man as long as you are healthy and breathing you can and should be able to find something that makes you happy,its like damn every day you wake up with doom and gloom, i be like muthafucka do the sun shine in your neighborhood cause you bring nothing but clouds my way,and i cant be around negative energy,i mean everybody has bad days but not everyday,and if you having bad days,and misery everyday then you need to find the lord,or some kind  of comfort,because like i have said before,and even more now that my grandmother passed im going to live each day like its my last,and not worry about nothing that i cant control,just enjoy the time that i have here on this earth with family friends,and no negative people and thats real talk.

Spontaneous Combustion

Sometimes you here people say oh the sex was boring,or they dont get that urge with a person,or they not spontaneous,and a lot of times that is true,sometimes you have to be willing to spice up the sex,do things to a person that they might not get all the time,i mean be willing to go to a level that they dont expect now sometimes you might be so good in the bedroom that you dont have to do much to make a person reach there peak,but sometimes you have to do the things that got you the person in the first place ,or you risk that person leaving you,or trying something else,and to me it should be anything goes in the bedroom,if your lady likes her asshole licked,or sucked then do it,if she like her pussy licked or sucked,then do it,if she likes slow passionate fucking then do it,if she likes rough sex then damn do it,and if your man wants his dick sucked on the regular then do it,if he wants to fuck you in the ass,then at least let him try if you dont like at least show him effort,if he wants to watch porn with you then do,and sometimes if you do things spontaneous then you never know you just might get the ultimate orgasm,from your mate,so people need to treat sex with the same effort that they expect to receive and if you get that effort then everybody should be leaving the bedroom feeling full filled and not disappointed and thats real man or woman should have by any means necessary attitude that you gonna satisfy your woman,or man and thats real talk for you. I always say a happy pussy makes for a happy dick well at least thats the way it should be.

The media will bring you up,and just as fast bring you down.

As many of you have followed charles ramsey the past few weeks, his 15 minutes of fame is gone,and you know why cause the media got tired of his story,and you know why because he was not intelligent enough for them to sustain anything longer than 15 minutes,yeah he was a hero the first week,and they were laughing at his look his hair, the way he talk,and praising him,but as soon as they got tired of him they decide to pull up his felony record for domestic abuse, and im not saying what he did was right or wrong,but what im saying is him having a record dont have shit to do with saving them women who had been mising for 10years,but thats the media for you,and you best believe if he was white he would have still been getting praise and thats real and what kind of surprise me a bit was the fact that obama didnt bring up charles ramsey, but i guess to each is own,but all i know is a black man save those mexican women and thats the bottom line,and i dont give a fuck what he looked like he is a hero to me so much respect mr ramsey for saving those women from a sadistic crazy insane muthafucka real talk.

Oh you The Baddest Bitch Alright"

You know what more than anything is when a woman calls her self the baddest bitch, that shit burns me up,  i mean have some respect for yourself, unless you walk on 44 legs then why call yourself a bitch,and let me give you and example of a woman who calls herself a good bitch, she lives in a nice home,her husband provides for her,plus she has a nice job,and he buys her gucci bags, louie bags,and whatever,he beats her ass when she comes home late,he beats her ass when she gets loud with him,but he rewards her when she sucks his dick good,or fucks him good,or if she stays home like the bitch he wants her to be,and she thinks this behavior is fine,because she thinks she is a good bitch,and the sad part is he is treating her just like a dog,and she proud to tell her friends cause she has nice things a beautiful roof over her head and she fucks and sucks her husband well that she is the baddest bitch, but in reality she is a stupid,no respect having woman,who is living just like a real bitch a female dog with four legs,so the point of the story is women quit calling yourself a bitch and just be happy being called and treated like a lady,cause a woman a real woman dont get treated like a bitch cause they have to much class and respect for themselves real talk.

She Found Mr GoodBar" XXX Hump Day Edition"

You know i have to share this story of woman name peaches and peaches has been trying for years to find a man who could stimulate her to the point that she could have and orgasm, and so she had went to the doctor to see if something was wrong with her,and the doctor told her no, she just hadnt found the person that has taken her to heights she had never experienced as a 40 year old woman,but then she met this man name darnell and darnell was a nice guy she liked him,and so she went out with on a couple of dates,and she told her girls he was cool she loved his company,and they had great chemistry but they hadnt had sex yet so she told her girls she really likes him so she went to his place after a dinner and a movie,and so they started kissing after some drinks,so they stopped and she asked him could she go in his kitchen to get some ice,and he said i will get it for you,so he said its no problem your my guess,she told him just change the music to something smoother so he did and maxwell and alicia keys song came on fire we make and so he when she came back with her drink,he took the drink out her hand and then he undressed her in his living room started sucking and licking on her tits,then as he was licking her breasts he was had his finger in her pussy playing with her G.Spot then she was moaning and begging for her to taste her,so then he layed back on the couch and she climbed up on the couch and started riding his face and he ate her pussy for awhile until she started feeling funny feeling something she had never felt and after she started shaking she finaaly came in his face and squirted her juices in his face and she was crying,so after she came,then she slid down and pulled his pants down and was shocked that he had a dick bigger than she expected she said damn how big is your dick he said 10 inches and she just smiled and started sucking and she sucked on him until he came in her mouth,then she got him hard again,took him to his bedroom and they 69 each other for a minute then he laid her back and fucked her nice and slow,and deep until she started getting that feeling again and she came again,and then he turned her over licked her asshole,then put his dick inside her,and as he was fucking her from the back he put his finger in her asshole and she came again as he had his finger in her ass and dick in her pussy, and so the moral to this story is eventually that mr right,or as she called him her mr goodbar finally made her feel what she had waited 40years to feel and thats real.

Never Allow Anyones Opinion Of You To Become A Reality"

You know the thing that i have always admired about myself,was the way i was raised to never let anyone opinion of me to change the way i do things, and the way i am but a lot of people do and thats fucked up,because those very people who judge you are the main ones who have all the skeletons in there closets,or the ones who are hypocrites,so my thing is live your life the way you see fit,and never try to fit another person who breathes,and bleeds just like you the mold of what they think you be cause if you do that then you might as well be a puppet and let them control string real talk.

Im Sorry But Is it A Crime Now To Break Up With Someone"

I dont know about you,but i thought that if you are not happy with a person,and you try to work it out, and it still not working,i thought the option was leaving that person alone,and finding someone that can make you happy,and the last time i check,that was not a crime,but for someone reason people have got it twisted,and feel that if you leave them they have the right to try and get physical with you,or kidnap you,or torture you,or in a lot of case lately kill you,and to me thats fucked up that you feel that if a person dont wont you that you feel you have to harm them, i mean they dont make niggas like they use to cause these niggas these days is emotionally weak,and the females as well, i mean a guy dont want you know more,then you want to make his life difficult,a woman dont want you know more you want to try and harm her, i mean my take on this is if a person is not happy with you and they want to move on then get fuck on and let them walk peacefully with out all the drama,cause life is to short to be crying,and plotting against and ex, im not saying its easy moving on,but at the end of the day you have to suck it up and move the fuck on,and find the person that will provide you true happiness,all this domestic violence and shit is some real hoe shit indeed, i wish a muthafucka would try to get violent against my daughter when she grow up cause she not happy with them that nigga will be 6 feet deep real talk,cause thats why we have choices,same goes for a crazy woman who cant get over man who walks out on her just let him leave,its his right and then move on its that simple real talk, people need to wise up cause im seeing everyday on the news,and social media to much domestic violence cause somebody upset that the person they were with is moving on accept and live your life period.

You Only Get One Life To Live"

Look im not about to keep preaching the importance of living your life,cause everybody lives there life the way they want,but what i will say is dont waste your precious moments that you have on this earth, just do something,if you want to travel,then travel go see places,if you want to go to sporting events,or plays,or concerts,o r something recreational then do it,all im saying is dont just not exist,cause life has to much to offer,for a person to say there is nothing to do,to me that is a copout there is so much to do in life you just have to find what it is that makes you happy and if you find someone to share or do those things with then thats even better real talk,cause a man,or woman who dares to waste one hour of time, has not discovered the value of life real talk.

Ignorancy Is A Trend"

I dont know if im getting older,or if the new rap entertainers are getting more stupid,by the minute,and its not just the rappers,its the entertainers, athletes, and celebrities period, i mean you got lil wayne talking about giving you a beating like emmitt till i mean know your history weezy you dumb fuck,and rick ross talking about mollys and raping women,another ignorant statement by a dumb fat ass and i like rozay but still that was ignorant,then you got the reality shoes with women just making there self look real ignorant,what happen to the days of a classy woman,its still plenty out here but its a whole lot of trash as well,and then if you notice vh1 growing up was about videos,and behind the music,now its bitch that,hoe that,and dont get me wrong its my ghetto little pleasure but its still ignorant,but i believe its a standard set because of the society we live in and people want there kids to look up to these people fuck that im going to be my daughters role model not no person acting ignorant on tv,cause its obvious that ignorancy is a trend real talk,and if more parents dont get a hold on there kids we will continue to put more ignorant kids into society and thats not a good look,so all im saying is parents be more mindful of todays youth cause once they reach a certain age its a wrap.

Always Bring Your A game XXX"

You know the worst thing a man can tell a woman is he was off tonite,or he can do better,or he was holding back, a woman dont want to hear that shit she wants you to bring your a game always,or at least bring the effort,cause when you do that all she will want is more of you,so why the fuck would you half step in the bedroom, i mean if your lady wants her pussy ate a certain way,and you know this then damn do it,if she wants you to lick her ass then do it,if she is stimulated by the licking of her clit then do it,if she likes the tongue in her hole then do,just do what she likes or needs to make her cum,and be willing to try different positions,and dont be so predictable all the time have some spontaneous about your self,be willing to fuck in other rooms,and i bet you she will return the favor,fuck her outside,or on a beach,just be freaky,cause a woman loves a man who is willing to go the extra mile to make her cum,and like i have always said there is nothing wrong with being a freak for that woman you into real talk.Cause if you not then there will always be someone else who will and thats a fact.

Bitch Dont Kill My Vibe"

You know so many times people are with the wrong people,and sometimes women claim they wont a good man,and a man claims he wants a good woman,but then when they get one,they dont know how to treat them, im going to use a perfect example my boy marcus was with this girl,and he was going to work,and he didnt hang out to much,and he would fuck his woman just the way she liked,eat her pussy,at the drop of a dime,and all he would like is to drink his beer sometimes,go to work,take care of his family,and watch his sports,but that was not enough for his girl,she would always complain about he dont want to travel,or he dont go to the movies,but then when he did that she would find away to harp on the sexy he not fucking her enough he giving her 2rounds,now she want three,so eventually marcus got tired of her shit,and he found someone who would appreciate him,and what fucked his ex up,is marcus started traveling he wouldnt even get on a plane,now he going here and there with his new boo,and him and his new is fucking and roleplaying in the bedroom talking dirty to him,she sucks his dick when he watching sports,just showing him another side,and now his ex is looking stupid and wanting him back and trying to make his life hard with his new girl,but marcus just tels her bitch dont kill my vibe,cause when you had me nothing was ever enough now he has someone who dont like to argue,likes to travel,likes to have freaky sex,likes to go shopping,and whatever they do together its enough for her,and it makes him want to do more cause instaed of trying to kill his vibe,she trying to vibe right along with him,and thats whta you need and want from a person you into.

I Had No Idea"

A lot of times people assume that a person is living the glamourous life,just happy having a ball but sometimes people have no idea how a person is truly feeling,and that is why if you truly love someone,or care about someone,its always best to ask them are they ok,or how they are feeling,or try to make them happy,and not just assume by looking on the outside that they are fine,because a lot of times thats why you see on the news,man i cant believe he or she killed themselves,they seem like they were so happy,cause you have no idea sometimes what or how a person is feeling inside,cause depression,can lead to illness,stress,can lead to illness,and a lot times and unhappy person can not deal with life and feel the need to not want to be here anymore,so all im saying is everybody life is not peaches and cream,and if you dont have god,or the support of a loved one life can be hard,so what im really trying to say is pay attention to that person who might crying out for help,or that person who you know is not right and they might need some conversation,company,love,sex,whatever just pay attention cause you never want to be that person who says wow i wish i could have done more,but i had no idea.And thats real talk.

Having A Sugardaddy Aint Always Sweet"

You know im about to keep it real as possible,and this is to the ladies who are not independent who feel that finding them and older man who will take care of them and pay there bills and help them out,is the way to go,well let me tell you a story of someone i know personally,its a friend of mine who had a decent job making ok money not great but ok,who decided she wanted to meet this man who 18 years older than her and at the time she was 39 and he was 57 going on 58, so life was good he was taking her on nice trips,buying her nice gifts,just showing her the good life,well she started falling in love with him so she thought,and so they kicked for a while,and finally they got married so she made the sugar daddy her husband,well lets fast forward 13 years later now she 52 and he 70 and his ass got a million ailments now,all those trips and shit is over cause he cant do it no more and he dont want to do it no more,and now she is breaking down from taking care of his ass so i asked her life aint so sweet now with your sugardaddy and she said not only is it not sweet she had no idea that he would quickly get set in his ways,and all those great times they had together his old ass was not up to it no,more so now she wants to back track and find somebody her age,but she didnt look at the big picture then she just saw dollar signs,and the smell of roses,and now all she see is his pension and social security coming in once a month and the smell of bengay,and having a dry ass pussy cause he to broke down to fuck her,so for those looking for a sugardaddy do your homework first and look at the big picture real talk.