Where you Look You Shall find.

You know a lot of times women say they want a man, a good man a gentlemen,but yet they go to the wrong places trying to find a man,up in the clubs and bars trying to find your husband,not saying it cant happen but the odds are against you,most of the time all you going to find in places like that is a man trying to fuck you fo the night or for a little while,so you meet the guy thinking your pussy and your ways going to make him change,but once it doesnt do what you expected,or wanted it to do,you are now calling the same guy you was in love with,or crazy about on facebook saying he aint shit,or on twitter dogging him out,or telling your friends he aint shit,my thing is you should have not had your expectations so high,especially when you going in a club,or bar trying to find mr right,cause 9 times out of 10 you in the wrong place looking for the wrong thing,so all im saying is let love find you,or at least go to places where you might find that special someone who is looking for more than just getting a piece of ass real talk.

Watch Yo Kids Sometimes"

You Know my biggest pet peeve is parents who always taking there kids over other people house,and parents who dont spend no time with there kids,but get upset when there kids turn out to be fucked up, i mean what do you expect if you not raising your kids,you always in the streets,or in the club,or hanging out,how do you expect them to respect you when you never around,whats wrong with sitting your ass down and spending some quality time with your kids,thats all im saying,its ok to party and bullshit sometimes,but not all the time,so dont be asking what happen to him or her,or saying they were a good kid when your ass wasnt evening hardly there to raise them,you wanted a kid so damn it raise them you should have thought about fun and shit before you had them.

Giving Thanks On This Day"

You know people dont realize as you get older each year that you have a birthday,the older you get its not about the material things such as gifts,and cards,and trips,and parties,that matter its about being able to wake up on this day knowing that god has giving me another year on this earth,its about waking up having a great family,and friends in your life,its about the little things that you come to appreciate,like walking,talking,breathing,just being able to have your health to enjoy life thats whats important to me,so on this day june 24 2012, i want to give thanks for god allowing me to see another birthday with my health intact,and no matter what worries life bring your way nothing is as precious or valuable than being able to see this day So im going to enjoy this day to the fullest.

You Wanted A thug So deal with it"

You know what kills me,is when women say they want a guy who is a gentlemen,or a man who knows what he wants,not a street nigga,but yet they want a little swag,and they say the regular man is not exciting enough,well my thing is if you want that then go for it,just be prepared for the end results cause its not going to be what you think,all the time,hell most of the time,You get these street niggas who dont have time for you,who will get your ass pregnant,and still be in the streets,and your ass at home watching his one or two or three kids he got you on lockdown,and he either running around all times of the night,or he end up in jail,but remember it was exciting it was what you wanted,you just didnt look at the big picture,you thought that thug that swag that fast money would last forever,you thought your pussy was going to slow him down not knowing that you was just his bottom bitch,and he was always going to chase that paper just like he would be chasing the new pussy the new bitch for him,so you stupid women who want a street nigga,at least think before you make that move cause it aint no future except for the picture i just showed you on my page real talk.

Haters Gonna Hate"

Well let me be the first to say i told you so,i said that it was lebrons time,and he got focused he let the haters drive him to victory,and now the haters can go jump in a lake right next to all the cleveland haters,lebron played at and mvp level,he got his teamates involved time,and time again,and for that the miami heat is nba champions for 2012,and i am so happy i cant stop smiling cause never in all my years have i seen such hatred for one man who is just a basketball player very likeable guy who plays hard and does it the right way so to all his haters fuck you,to all of the cleveland fans fuck you,and to the lebron fans,and miami heat fans lets raise that glass and salute your team cause we here and we aint going nowhere please believe it.

Be A Father To Your Child"

You know on my old blog before it was taken down,i had wrote about this topic,so im going to refresh this topic for my new followers,I was a child who didnt have my real father in my life,he and my mom broke up when i was little,so i hardly knew him,so fathers day was not really a big day in my home,and a lot of young boys would use that as and excuse to get out of hand and rebel,but me and my brothers we didnt do that,because we had strong woman figures in our lives,we had my mother,my grandmother,and my great grandmother, and my great aunt,so we had strong black women to show us right from wrong,and how to be a man,and how to treat a woman,so i said to myself that it was his lost because he missed out on raising 3 fine boys who became men,and i also said that when i got grown,and had a child of my own,that i would be there for them,raise them,and let them know no matter what they had there daddy there,and im not talking about just materialistic things,im talking spending that quality time together,watching tv,going on field trips,teaching them how to ride a bike,going to amusement parks together,i wanted to be not just a provider for my child,but also and influence,a presence,and give her one on one time,so many men have these kids,and they either dont claim them,or dont spend time with them,nothing,and that is sad because a lot of kids espeically in the black community go thru life without no father,and they accept that as a way of life,well today i am saying to you fathers out here get up off your ass and raise your kids,dont expect to be saluted on this day when you dont deserve it cause a real father raises his kids anybody can bust a nut and make a child but it takes a real man to raise them real muthafucking talk cause this is a sour subject with me,cant nobody tell me about raising my child,and i just laugh at some of these fuck niggas cause they so funny claiming they real daddys when they hardly spend a minute if that with there kids,so once again be a father to your child.

Daddys Little Girl"

You know 10 years ago my life changed forever i was guy who was by himself,and to be honest never really thought about having kids,but all that changed on march 7 2002 when god gave me my bundle of joy,a little girl who showed me that love is unconditional,that no matter how bad things can get in life,whenever i look at her she would make me smile,a little girl who showed me the true meaning of love, a little girl that showed me that even on a cloudy day i had sunshine,i truly know what it means to make sure that she had whatever i could give her,to make her happy,and i was now responsible for this little girl,to make sure she ate,she was dressed,and to make her life as easy as i could,to raise her,and for the past 10 years i have had nothing but joy,so i would like to say on this fathers day thank you lord for allowing me to have the most precious gift you could give me my little chanel who i love dearly.

This Ones For You"

You know its nothing worse than having someone smile in your face,and talk shit or hate behind behind your back,i call these type of niggas fuck niggas,so im writing this one for you,Its like how the fuck you gonna follow in my footsteps,and try to do the things,that i do and yet your ass cant even keep up,my thing is how you gonna bite the hand that kept you relevant,didnt nobody even know your ass but a handful out of 3000 but yet they all knew me,how you gonna,try and downgrade a nigga when you want the life that i have,and always have had,i dont even brag,but i know i cant get who i want,i dont have to put salt on another niggas name to get the things i want,i happy with my life,but fuck niggas like you get up in the morning miserable cause you with a bitch that you dont want, never wanted,but yet you want to hate,on your mans,who had your back,front and side,but one thing about me once you hate on me i treat you like the bitch you are,and i dont just write about i address the shit to your face,but im putting this on blast cause its just to let a nigga like you know that bitch im bigger than you know my shit reaches from the D to out the country,so i wont all my readers to know never fuck around and get cool with a nigga who is smiling in your face,but yet he wish he had your place,cause thats whta you call a fuck nigga so i know you will read this it will hit home,and all i can say is this ones for you.

Miami Heat Haters"

You know i know a lot of people is still mad cause lebron left cleveland,and had the decision show,and all that,but my thing is he was a free agent,and just like when barkely tried to go play with akeem,and drexler, or when pippen went and played with akeem and barkley its a free country,and by the way fuck cleveland and i got family there i dont give a fuck about him leaving cleveland, im glad he went to south beach,and its his team,and im team heat all day everyday,and i hope the king gets a ring i love durant,and respect o.k.c,and they might beat my boys,but damn it if im not riding with my niggas to the end,and for all you boston lovers,go kill yourself,and i hope lebron gets that one,not 2 not 3 not 4 not 5 rings damn it so lets see what happen team heat signing off.

You Got All The Advice But Where is Your Man,Or Your Woman"

This short blog im a bought to write is dedicated to those lonely muthafuckas who love to get on facebook,or get on these chat forums,and try and tell the next woman,or man about relationships,when in reality,they asses is playing with some plastic shit at home,or jacking off they dick cause they cant find nobody,yeah like jeezy said this ones for you,My thing is ok people can share the experiences they have been thru,and maybe share it with a friend or two,but when you constantly seeing the same bashing,and the same quotes on a persons wall,about romance,or what they want settle for,and what they would do,you have to ask yourself,wait a minute is this person a relationship hater,or just a lonely person,who keeps striking out in the romance department,cause i be damn if i let someone try and tell me about a relationship,or romance who cant get it right there self,or is always by themself,that shit is crazy as hell to me,so for all you lonely ass always hating or bashing on your friend or family memebers cause they have somebody,and you dont shut the fuck up and sit your lonely tired ass played out ass down somewhere,and follow the advice you trying to give on your walls or profiles,and find a person of your own assholes real talk.

Watch Who you let in Your Circle"

You know people like to use the word friend very loosely thats a word i dont use a lot,because my circle is very limited,i may have plenty of associates,but friends shit the truth dont fuck around with just anybody my true friends it only take two hands to count them,and once you get my age thats all the friends i need real talk,cause when you start letting a lot of people in your circle shit gets started a lot of he say she say,and thats real cause trust me like ice t said back in the day some of these niggas is bitches to,i watch for a lot of niggas who want to try and be my friend cause of the things i do,the lifestyle i may live,but when i have my get togethers at my house,my true niggas know who they are and they been my noiggas for the past 15 years and some a lifetime,so when i get these fuck niggas trying to get all cool with me all of sudden i be looking at them niggas like bitch im watching you and you best believe you not even stepping foot in my circle cause i dont trust a lot of niggas and i just feel that once you get a certain age,its time out for all the bullshit real talk,The less niggas the less drama, So all im saying to my followers watch who you let in your circle cause everybody aint going to be real,you have users who just want to be on your team for status,and thats not my style so just watch who you let in,this goes for my dogs,and for the females out here watch your circle.

When You Have Somebody You Know Got Your Back You hold On to Them"

You know a lot of times people get it twisted and think that they might have someone who just because they can fuck you good or they sexy as hell that is all you need,but thats for a shallow muthafucka who is looking at the small picture and not the big picture,what you have to look at is knowing that when times are rough you have somebody thats in your corner supporting you,being there for you,somebody that you can celebrate the good times with them,and even thru the rough times if there are some you can still get along,thats when you know you have someone,that is down for you,and have your back,and i think a lot of times guys lose sight of what they have for something that is not really sincere when it comes to there well being,so what do they do they go fuck up a good thing not realizing that what they have is so much better for them than what they are looking for,and by the time they do its to late,and once its too late most of the time,you cant get it back,so to the fellas if you got a good woman,hold on to her,cause you never want to regret losing someone that is there for you and cherishes you for someone that is only out for material things or some dick real talk.

K2 Wish They Had The Same Uproar As Crack In The Black community"

For those that live in michigan you know about the case of tucker cipriano A teen who was adopted by the Cipriano family was using the drug K2 spice is another name for it on the streets of michigan,and so now that this drug has reached the white suburbs,now michigan is doing all it can to ban the drug,come down hard on people who are selling it,and they are going past legislation and making sure this ban passes fast,now my thing is ok im glad you banning the drug nobody wants to see young teens dying and shit over some drugs,but what is pissing me off is the way that they are trying to stop this drug, but if this drug was and epidemic in the black community it would not be this uproar,its like the same old song and dance if its killing the white people its and uproar,but if its in the black community oh well its just like crack what can we do,my point is fair is fair,im tired of the white leaders in michigan and other places who are bullshitting the black people,and not being fair this shit has to stop,cause its not fair,and its not right,and the fact that it takes a young troubled white man who was using the stuff to kill his father and brother,just shows you how its racial tones in everything real talk.If you white or the situation is white then its and uproar,if you black its just business as usual.

Someone Like You"

You know sometimes you can write about something that hits home with a lot of people,male and female,and i wrote about this topic,before my first blog crashed,but im going to refresh it for people,who might not have read it,Why is that a person can have the perfect person for them,a person who can make them laugh,make them happy,please them in and out of the bedroom,do things to them in there bed like no other,take them places they have never been or thought of,have that damn near perfect love people dream of, man may have that woman who is just the ultimate in and out the bedroom,You finally find a person who is willing and wanting to do things with you give you the quality time you deserve,but then somehow either the man or woman gets scared,or bored,or tired of this thing they have been searching for there whole life,and then they sabotage the relationship,and once they do that,they are back to the drawing board looking for what they had been searching there whole life for,now to me that just does not make any sense to me,but it happens all the time,and then once they lose that person they had,they are going out trying to find a person just like the one they let get away,and if they cant find that person then they go out trying to get that person back,not realizing that the person they fucked over,has moved on,and then they are miserable on sites,forums,facebook,chat rooms,any social outlet they can find trying to tell people how they are lonely,and missing out on that special someone,when the people who are listening to him or her,have no idea that they ran off the best thing they ever had,and now they are chasing someone like you the person they once had,but now have lost just crazy,i just wish people would realize what they have when they have it,so that they can do something then,before its too late,real talk.

Nothing Worse Than Being Somewhere Your Not Wanted"

You know i could probably write over a hundred topics about being lonely and not wanted,or appreciated,because i read about it,and see it every day,and what makes it even more crazy is when you have people who truly feel that they only have to do a little,and the person they with will be ok, like there arent over hundreds and hundreds of women and men wishing and praying they could have someone of there own,And i dont care what a person says there is nothing like being somewhere where you know that you are not wanted,where you feel if you walked away,that you would not be missed,that if you wasnt around that it would make things easier for a person,in the short term,but in the long term they might or they might not realize that you had some serious worth to them,but they couldnt see it because something caused them to not want to be with you as much as they used to,so my advice to people who may be in a situation where they feel this way,address once,and only once,because if you keep addressing it over and over again,then it will not hold water,it will not hold weight,cause your argument will have lost substance,and the person you are with that you are trying to get your point across to will not take you seriously,so after you have made them aware of your feelings,and things still dont change,or you still feel unwanted,unappreciated,and unworthy,then you will have to do what may see hard to you in the short term,but in the long term you will eventually see that it was the right thing to do for you,the person,and your piece of mind.

The Way You Got Them Is the way you keep them"

You know im going to be brief and to the point,whether you a man or woman when you enter a relationship,and you decide that you really want this person,the way you got the person is the way you keep the person whether its thru communication texting,spending time with them,making plans with them,sexting them a certain way,however you were able to win there heart that is how you keep there heart,because once you start not caring,or trying to keep them engaged,all you going to do is risk losing them,and once you lose something,its hard to get it back,and especially if its worth having,or saving,so all im saying to everyone who reads this,if you wined,and dined them from the start then how come you cant still do the same thing real talk im out.